Category: Friends

Thomas J Munn

News comes that a friend far away
is dying now
I look up and see small flowers appearing
in spring grass outside the window
and can’t remember their name
W.S. Merwin

Tom was an artist, a creator of awesome stage pictures that provoked and delighted audiences around the world, but his most important gift was the love he bestowed on family and friends.
He was a great friend: caring, loyal and generous, honest, kind and constant. I will miss him very much.
It’s raining in Paris today and the rooftop chorus of mourning doves voices the soundtrack of a somber day.

Tom in the Roussillon Vineyards

©2022 Ron Scherl

Larry Walker

1936-2022

Directions for Dying

Read Carefully:
It is important
That you get it right the first time.
There are no second takes.
You understand that, surely?

First, be sure all the bills are paid
Or there is money in the bank
To pay them.
Your terminal credit report
Means nothing to you
But could be important to your heirs, if any.

Second, you must (and this is essential)
Resist the impulse to write long and maudlin letters
To friends and relatives about your life
And death and what it all means.
No one, repeat after me, no one gives a shit.

In the same spirit, do not
Under any circumstance
Leave directions for music to be played
Or poems to be read at your funeral.
That is simply embarrassing for everyone.
(If you really must
You can request particular flowers.
Daisies are a cheerful choice.)

Finally, keep in mind
That your death is not about you.
I think that covers the main points:

Now:
Get Ready.
Get Set.
Go.

LEW